The answer is no.
There are many reasons why I am still single and I am honestly okay with that.
Some people find it hard to believe that I am okay with being single.
I am.
Every now and then I'll get a pity look when I answer no, and then a reply of, "Oh that's okay, it'll happen."
Yeah, I know it's okay, but thanks for validating that.
annnnnd
No, you don't know that it will happen.
A few reasons I'm single:
- I'm very independent, I don't handle the "where are you going? when will you be back?" sort of thing very well.
- Commitment scares me.
- 80% of single men are douche bags. (Not all... I did give 20% leeway)
- I've had some bad dating experiences. (I know I can't let one ruin it all, and believe me, after some of the dates I've had it's amazing I haven't become a nun or something.)
It's very tiring explaining to people why you are single and I seriously get asked it all of the time.
I just smile and say, "Nope, it's just me and my dog."
I know I probably come off as a crazy dog lady, but it usually makes people stop asking questions.
I'll try to remember to share some bad dating stories every now and then on here...
Hey. I can't give up all my tricks at once.
I think people are just surprised that someone so beautiful and so cool hasn't been snatched up by one of those wonderful 20%! But I will introduce you to people as a crazy dog lady whenever we are together from now on (we should get together!)!
ReplyDeleteI love that you love being single! There are so many that are miserable in the place God has them. You enjoy it!
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